The home is a place where there should be peace, but if there is an atmosphere of quarrels and discord there, the entire life is affected. Domestic peace does not come only from finances or material facilities; for this, a spiritually peaceful environment is also essential. We will tell you some prayers and Wazifas that will prove helpful in establishing peace and tranquility in your home. These prayers are very easy, which you can recite daily in the morning and evening. Reciting these prayers will not only make the atmosphere of your home peaceful, but love and affection for each other will also be created in the hearts of your family members. We will tell you which prayers should be recited when and what their benefits are.
Spiritual Practice
If you wish that trust and life always remain between you and your husband and the fear of divorce is permanently removed, then perform the Wazifa of the blessed names “Ya Allah Ya Mu’min Ya Muhyi” (O Allah, O Granter of Security, O Giver of Life). On Friday night, after the Isha prayer, recite Durood Shareef 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between, remember “Ya Allah Ya Mu’min Ya Muhyi” 700 times. Repeat this practice continuously for 14 days, daily with regularity. Insha’Allah, after this, the blessing of faith and new life will come in your relationship, which will give new birth to the trust and love of both of you. After completing the Wazifa, pledge to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Allah Ya Mu’min Ya Muhyi” 100 times daily so that your relationship always remains alive and vibrant. These names will create peace in your heart and freshness in your relationship.
Causes of Divorce
Keep in mind that if tension or the possibility of divorce is arising in the relationship between husband and wife, it does not happen without some external or internal cause. Our analysis indicates that if distances are also increasing between you and your husband, its 20 important reasons could be as follows.
Wife adopting an extremely selfish and opportunistic attitude.
Obstructing the husband’s humanitarian and charitable works.
Mocking creative abilities and artistic inclinations.
Continuously criticizing the husband for helping others.
Wife having a narrow-minded and compassionless attitude.
Not understanding the husband’s dreams of social change.
Making the home a center of conflicts and negative emotions.
Not respecting the husband’s spiritual or religious devotion.
Adopting an attitude of continuous complaint and ingratitude.
Attempt to limit the husband’s wide circle of friends.
Wife’s cruel or unjust attitude (especially with the weak).
Continuously breaking the husband’s ideal and romantic notions.
Damaging the husband’s popularity based on envy.
Shackling the husband’s creative and spiritual abilities due to evil eye or envy.
Wife fanning the envy made by relatives.
Turning the husband’s humanitarianism into hatred through black magic.
Destroying the husband’s dreams and ideal aspirations through negative gazes.
Wife taking advantage of the husband’s emotional and delicate nature.
Continuously spreading despair and negative thoughts.
Working against the husband’s spiritual and moral values.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, to build a deep relationship with your husband, it is essential that you understand his psychology and the heartbeat of his heart. When you adapt yourself according to his mood and temperament, he will also soften his attitude for you and make you a center of respect and love. Therefore, we have told some principles; abide by them, Insha’Allah every coming day will bring you gifts of happiness.
Understand his humanitarianism, compassion, and broad-hearted nature.
Value his universal and welfare-oriented ideas.
Avoid attitudes of narrow-mindedness or selfishness.
Respect his emotional and sensitive nature.
Praise his desire to help others.
Take an interest in arts, culture, or spiritual conversation.
Give him freedom for personal and creative expression.
Do not repeatedly bring up past problems.
Understand his desire to create an ideal world.
Adopt an attitude of forgiveness and moving forward.
Accept his romantic and idealistic thinking.
Balance dreams by accompanying him in the practical world.
Speak with softness and compassion instead of criticism.
Do not ignore his deep emotional needs.
Accompany him in social service works.
Encourage him in art or creative projects.
Avoid imposing undue restrictions on him.
Demonstrate broad-mindedness and tolerance.
Acknowledge the wisdom and insight present in his being.
Understand the importance of selfless love and sacrifice.