The word “divorce” itself shakes the foundations of the relationship as soon as it is uttered. If this thought is repeatedly coming to your or your husband’s mind, it is an alarm bell. But do not lose courage, because there is still time to remove this thought from the heart and establish an atmosphere of reconciliation and peace. We will tell you some practices that will create softness in your and your husband’s hearts. These practices can become part of daily routines; performing them will not only eliminate the negative energy within you but will also bring positive changes in your husband’s behavior. We will tell you which Wazifa to recite at what time, how many times to recite it, and what precautionary measures are necessary along with it. Insha’Allah, by acting upon these, you will be able to remove the thought of divorce from your heart forever.
Wazifa
If you wish to see your marital relationship free from any apprehension of divorce and want the hidden misunderstandings between you two to be removed, then perform the Wazifa of the blessed names “Ya Allah Ya Sattar Ya Ghaffar” (O Allah, O Veiler, O Forgiver). On Friday, after the Isha prayer, recite Durood Shareef 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between, recite “Ya Allah Ya Sattar Ya Ghaffar” 1000 times. Repeat this practice continuously for 14 days, without any break. Insha’Allah, after this, the shadow of Allah’s concealment and forgiveness will be upon both of your sins, weaknesses, and mistakes, which will rebuild your relationship anew. After completing the Wazifa, continue daily recitation of Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Allah Ya Sattar Ya Ghaffar” 100 times so that your relationship remains filled with the spirit of forgiveness and forbearance. This practice will lighten the burden of your heart and breathe new life into the relationship.
Causes of Divorce
Remember that the emergence of cracks or possibilities of divorce in a marital relationship is not without reason; rather, worldly or spiritual motives exist behind it. We believe that if there is tension in your relationship too, these 20 points from among its reasons could particularly be worthy of consideration.
Continuously destroying domestic peace.
Not fully respecting family values.
Financial mismanagement and extravagance.
Severe lack of emotional connection and support.
Complete neglect of responsibility towards home and children.
Continuous attitude of lying or infidelity.
Mistreatment with husband’s family.
Serious differences in children’s upbringing.
Continuously demeaning the husband’s personality.
Making domestic life impossible with unreasonable demands.
Neglecting the husband in loneliness and emotionally.
Maing the home a center of instability and anxiety.
Trying to separate relatives and friends.
Attitude of continuous criticism instead of cooperation.
Not appreciating the husband’s efforts and sacrifices.
Increasing negative energy and disputes in the home due to evil eye or envy.
Creating obstacles in the husband’s progress based on envy.
Severe coldness and hatred in the domestic relationship due to effects of black magic.
Causing negative effects on the husband’s health or intellect through magic and sorcery.
Despite these negative forces, not attempting treatment or protection.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, to increase love with your husband, it is essential that you reach the depth of his personality, understand his weaknesses and strengths. When you show softness and patience for him, he will also adapt himself for you and consider you an important part of his life. Therefore, we have stated some points; abide by them, Insha’Allah your relationship will become even more beautiful with time.
Value his affectionate and caring nature.
Consider home and family as his priority.
Express his love through both words and actions.
Value his opinion in domestic matters.
Acknowledge his attraction towards beauty and adornment.
Make the home a peaceful and pleasant environment.
Share the burden of his responsibilities.
Instead of criticizing, give praise and thanks.
Support him in relations with family.
Be emotionally present and listen to him.
Understand his desire to be an ideal.
Respect his decisions in financial matters.
Maintain romantic displays and softness.
Try to be a mediator in domestic conflicts.
Appreciate his creative abilities.
Do not encourage his habit of self-sacrifice.
Make him feel that he is valued.
Approach with good manners and gentle speech.
Value family events and traditions.
Take care of his sense of neatness and taste.
