Dear sister, always have complete faith in Allah’s mercy and protection. The difficult times in life, such as the fear of divorce or mental pressure, can greatly disturb a person’s heart, but with patience and faith, a solution to every difficulty is possible. Sometimes, circumstances become such that distance in heart and mind keeps increasing. It is essential for you that, instead of panicking, you understand the situation with patience, wisdom, and faith. You must know that divorce is not always only a woman’s failure, but often circumstances, misunderstandings, and external influences are also involved. If you remain calm, many problems can be solved.
Wazifa
If there is a risk of divorce between you and your husband, then the Wazifa of “Ya Wadud Ya Tawwab” (O Most Loving, O Acceptor of Repentance) is the best to prevent this divorce. For the Wazifa, after the Isha prayer on Friday, recite Durood Shareef 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between, you should recite “Ya Wadud Ya Tawwab” 1100 times. You must perform this Wazifa only after the Isha prayer and continue it for 14 days. Insha’Allah, after 14 days, love will begin to develop between you and your husband, which will eliminate the threat of divorce between the two of you.
Causes of Divorce
We believe your husband cannot intend to give you divorce on his own; rather, there is someone who is sowing the seed of hatred against you in his heart. Therefore, you need to calmly search for the reasons for the threat of divorce. We have listed some reasons below.
Emotional indifference and distance
Serious breach of trust
Continuous conflicts and violence in the home
Lack of respect and insulting behavior
Emotional loneliness and neglect
Physical or psychological mistreatment
Rudeness with family members
Deep feeling of evil eye or negative spiritual influences
Disgrace in public places
Financial dishonesty or betrayal
Complete refusal of responsibilities
Relationship becoming one-sided
Constant criticism and humiliation
Influence of negative companions or gazes in the home
Complete end of harmony
Lack of emotional security
Continuous lies and deceit
Psychological pressure and mental torment
Permanent destruction of domestic peace
Failure of all reconciliation attempts
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, to spend an entire life with a husband, it is essential that you try to spend time with him by understanding his psyche, emotions, and spiritual nature. When you try to change something for your husband, he will also change himself for you and begin giving you the utmost importance. Therefore, we have stated a few things below; understand and act upon them, Insha’Allah the coming time will bring happiness to your life.
Understand their emotional sensitivity.
Try to create a peaceful environment.
Approach with softness and love in conversation.
Value their peace-loving nature.
Avoid criticizing.
Appreciate their attachment to arts.
Support them in decisions.
Respect their solitude.
Be patient with their emotional ups and downs.
Keep romance alive.
Cooperate in financial matters.
Listen to them carefully.
Accept their social relationships.
Avoid stubbornness and arguments.
Encourage their creative abilities.
Give them continuous trust.
Resolve disagreements softly.
Understand their psychological depth.
Make small expressions of love.
Value their loyalty.
