When a husband, despite having a sincere wife, intends to marry a second time, it is a shock for the first wife that shakes her to the core. In such a situation, many Muslim wives choose to remain silent out of respect for Islamic rulings. They do not express their emotions outwardly, but this silence does not lessen their internal torment. They remain engulfed in intense mental pressure, restlessness, fears, and loneliness. On the other hand, some women strongly oppose such a decision and go to every extent to prevent such a marriage.
If you, as a wife, do not neglect your duties, yet your husband is still determined to take this step for the sake of a new relationship, then instead of despairing, seek help through prayer and wazifa (spiritual practice). Through prayers and wazifas, a husband’s intention can be reversed. Remember, prayer and wazifa are a spiritual weapon through which situations can be given a positive direction. In the following lines, we will describe one such wazifa for you.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you are sincere with your husband, yet despite this, your husband wishes to neglect you and marry another, then in such a situation, his negative decision can be changed through the wazifa of “La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah” (“There is no power nor strength except with Allah”).
This blessed prayer in Arabic is mentioned above.
For the wazifa of “La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah”, after the Isha prayer on Friday, first and last, recite the Durood Shareef (blessings upon the Prophet) 10 times each. In between, lovingly recite the blessed prayer “La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah” 313 times.
The described wazifa is to be performed only after the Isha prayer, and you must continue this wazifa for 14 days. God willing, within 14 days, Allah’s Being will create intense love for you in your husband’s heart, because of which he can reject every wrong decision of his.
After the wazifa is complete, make a habit of reciting Durood Shareef 10 times and “La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah” 10 times daily so that you may continue to receive the spiritual blessings of this wazifa.
Note that if there is a break in the wazifa, the wazifa will not break. However, if you miss a prescribed prayer (namaz), because of this your wazifa will break. Prayer is more important than wazifa; therefore, do not miss your prayers under any circumstances.
Reasons for a Second Marriage
Dear sister, a wazifa is a means of obtaining spiritual help, and due to spiritual help, your married life remains safe from all kinds of harm. That is, the wazifa is better in its place, but despite this, you also need to know the apparent and spiritual reasons at work behind your husband’s second marriage. These reasons will tell you where the mistake is and what more you need to do. The possible reasons for a husband’s second marriage are listed below.
They naturally desire peace and order, and if there is unrest at home, their heart begins to change.
Constant stress puts them in mental fatigue, and they seek peace outside.
If their hard work is not valued, they become distant at heart.
The wife’s constant complaints make them internally disappointed.
If emotional attention is received less, a void is created in their hearts.
If the home environment is strict, they look for softness elsewhere.
If they feel the burden of their responsibilities is too heavy, they look for an escape route.
If they do not receive respect and honor, they wish to get this feeling from someone else.
Repeated criticism weakens their confidence.
If the wife does not understand their quiet nature, distance increases.
Constant fighting and arguments dishearten them.
Pressure or talk from the family sometimes affects their decision.
The habit of suppressing their emotions makes them suffer from internal suffocation.
If there is doubt instead of love, they gradually become separate.
If commands are given at home instead of appreciation, they may take a wrong step in reaction.
It is believed that due to the evil eye (nazar), love between husband and wife decreases.
It is said that due to the effect of black magic, unease and distance arise in the heart.
It is thought that due to an enemy’s envy, misunderstandings increase in the relationship.
Spiritual or mental restlessness inclines them to seek support in someone else.
If they do not find inner happiness, they assume a second marriage to be the solution.
The Husband’s Nature and Your Conduct
Often, men wish to be given importance at home and to have their words heard. If the husband feels that his efforts are not being valued or he constantly faces complaints, he begins to feel distance in his heart. You must understand that a soft tone and speaking at an appropriate time bring hearts closer. Harsh words may give temporary relief but weaken the relationship. This does not mean you should become silent, but rather that you should speak with wisdom and not let arguments escalate. Your dignity is your greatest strength.
