Dear sister, the final and most complex domestic problem is one where hatred, despair, and distances have reached their peak. Where relationships are on the verge of breaking and darkness prevails all around. It feels as if there is no way out. This happens when mercy, love, and hope have vanished from the home. If you are also going through such a condition, do not lose hope; this final effort will lead to your victory.
Wazifa
To rekindle the rays of love, mercy, and hope in the home, perform the Wazifa of “Ya Rahman Ya Raheem” (O Most Merciful, O Most Compassionate). For this Wazifa, after the Isha prayer on Thursday, recite Durood Shareef (Blessings upon the Prophet) 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Rahman Ya Raheem” 1300 times.
You must perform this Wazifa only after the Isha prayer and continue it for 14 days. Insha’Allah, within 14 days, you will begin to find relief from domestic problems.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Rahman Ya Raheem” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without a genuine necessity.
Causes of Domestic Problems
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being overly emotional, a dreamer, and impractical.
Inability to forget past failures or sorrows.
Avoiding domestic responsibilities.
Carelessness in financial matters.
Expecting to see everything in an ideal manner.
Being emotionally unstable.
Difficulty in making decisions.
Difficulty in apologizing but expecting apologies from others.
Criticizing family members for not meeting one’s emotional needs.
Becoming excessively emotional over others’ difficulties.
Destroying the happiness of the home due to envy.
Despair and hopelessness due to the effects of the evil eye.
Hatred instilled in relationships through black magic.
Considering oneself afflicted.
Exaggerating domestic issues.
Becoming overly emotional in matters concerning relatives.
Emotional confusion in raising children.
Being spiritually disorganized or having negative beliefs.
Considering the home a prison.
Being fearful of the future.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Understand and respect his emotions and dreams.
Help him forget the past, draw his attention to the present.
Share domestic responsibilities jointly.
Assist him in financial matters and create a budget.
Give practical shape to ideal expectations.
Be patient with him for emotional stability.
Help him in decisions and provide options.
Establish a tradition of forgiveness.
Understand his emotional needs and try to fulfill them.
Channel his desire to help others in a positive direction.
Tell him that he is not afflicted but a beloved servant of Allah.
Focus on solving problems, not on magnifying them.
Adopt a moderate attitude in matters concerning relatives.
Create an environment of love and compassion in raising children.
Connect spiritual worship with hope and love.
Make the home a center of freedom and creativity.
Remain positive and hopeful about the future.
