Dear sister, the most severe domestic problem is the one that arises from the struggle of power, control, and authority. When every matter in the home turns into a testing ground of power. Where there are no decisions, only orders being given. This condition arises when there is a lack of respect and mutual honor in the home. If your home is also facing this war of power, then this spiritual practice will become a source of strength for you.
Wazifa
For mutual respect, honor, and a balance of just power in the home, perform the Wazifa of “Ya Aziz Ya Hakeem” (O All-Mighty, O All-Wise). On Friday at Maghrib time, recite Durood Shareef 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Aziz Ya Hakeem” 2100 times. You must perform this Wazifa only after the Isha prayer and continue it for 14 days.
Insha’Allah, soon justice will be established in the home, and the war of power will end.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Aziz Ya Hakeem” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without a genuine necessity.
Causes of Domestic Problems
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being very powerful, possessing high ambitions.
Imposing one’s will in domestic matters.
Considering respect and dignity most important.
Excessive focus, greed, or stinginess in financial matters.
Viewing every matter from a business or power perspective.
Considering domestic emotions a weakness.
Being one-sided in decisions.
Not admitting one’s mistakes.
Trying to exert financial or physical control over family members.
Feeling jealous of others’ success.
Hiding the wife’s successes due to envy.
Constant suspicion and distrust due to the effects of the evil eye.
Power war in the home being incited through black magic.
Considering oneself superior to all.
Neglecting domestic joys.
Power issues with relatives.
Ruling over children with strictness.
Considering spiritual worship merely a ritual.
Considering the home one’s empire.
Not valuing others’ opinions.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Respect his power and ambitions.
Present your will softly but firmly.
Take care of his dignity and respect, especially in front of others.
Make investment plans together with him in financial matters.
View domestic matters as a common interest rather than a power struggle.
Explain that emotions are an expression of strength.
Consult him in decisions and present your opinion with reasoning.
Point out mistakes softly, do not blame.
Maintain your financial and personal freedom.
Encourage him to celebrate others’ success.
Praise his successes but also mention your own.
Arrange decent entertainment and joys at home.
Adopt a soft and conciliatory attitude towards relatives.
Adopt an attitude of softness and love towards children.
Perform spiritual worship with depth of heart.
Consider the home a shared empire where everyone’s opinion is important.
Listen to others’ opinions and also convince him to listen.
