Dear sister, the most painful domestic problem is when the home itself starts feeling like a burden instead of giving peace. Where one expects sympathy and service, there is only criticism and emotional burden. This condition arises when the balance in domestic relationships is disturbed. If you feel that your love and sacrifices are not acknowledged, only demands are being made, then this practice will help you.
Wazifa
To increase harmony, balance, and mutual cooperation in the home, the Wazifa of “Ya Tawwab Ya Ghaffar” (O Acceptor of Repentance, O Forgiver) is very useful. For this Wazifa, after the Dhuhr prayer on Friday, recite Durood Shareef 6 times at the beginning and 6 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Tawwab Ya Ghaffar” 1100 times. This practice is to be done for 14 days. Insha’Allah, an atmosphere of love and sympathy will be established in the home, and your sacrifices will be valued.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Tawwab Ya Ghaffar” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without a genuine necessity.
Causes of Domestic Problems
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being very responsible but expecting the same from others.
Having ideal expectations in domestic matters.
Criticizing in an attempt to improve everything.
Stinginess or excessive generosity in financial matters.
Being overly involved in matters concerning relatives.
Not including others in domestic decisions.
Being emotionally heavy and burdening others.
Difficulty in asking for or giving forgiveness.
Considering the home only a responsibility, not a center of love.
Siding with one’s own family against the wife’s will.
Considering the wife’s domestic skills inferior due to envy.
Harshness and tension in domestic relations due to the effects of the evil eye.
Discord sown among family through black magic.
Considering oneself a sacrificer.
Repeatedly reminding others of their mistakes.
Not giving importance to art, music, or aesthetics at home.
Excessive strictness in raising children.
Being formal spiritually but lacking compassion.
Considering the home merely an institution.
Bringing family disputes into one’s own home.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Praise his responsibilities and thank him.
Make expectations clear and reasonable.
Focus on praise instead of constructive criticism.
Create a balanced budget for financial matters.
Play a positive role together with him in matters concerning relatives.
Consult and include him in domestic decisions.
Listen to his emotional burden and try to lighten it.
Establish a tradition of asking for and giving forgiveness.
Create moments of love and closeness at home.
Maintain a balance between your family and his family.
Acknowledge his sacrifices but also mention your own.
Do not repeatedly bring up past mistakes.
Beautify the home, put up paintings and plants.
Include an element of softness and love in raising children.
Connect spiritual worship with love and mercy.
Make the home a cradle of love.
Keep your home separate from family disputes and try to be a mediator.
