Dear sister, sometimes everything in the home seems fine on the surface, yet the heart feels suffocated. It feels as if the liveliness of the home has faded. This situation often arises when communication in the home decreases, and opportunities for laughter and conversation are lost. If your home is also shrouded in a strange silence and dullness, this is a different form of domestic problem, the spiritual solution for which is given below.
Wazifa
To increase liveliness, happiness, and the trend of conversation in the home, perform the Wazifa of “Ya Fattah Ya Razzaq” (O Opener, O Provider). On Tuesday, immediately after the Dhuhr prayer, recite Durood-e-Ibrahimi 3 times at the beginning and 3 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Fattah Ya Razzaq” 700 times. Continue this practice for 14 days. Insha’Allah, the doors of the home will open for happiness and blessings, and the atmosphere of silence will disappear.
After completing the described Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Fattah Ya Razzaq” 100 times daily so that you may continue to receive the spiritual blessings of this Wazifa.
Causes of Domestic Problems
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband having a very creative mind but being distant from practicality.
Exaggerating every matter.
Being weary of domestic restrictions.
Unnecessarily twisting conversations.
Financial carelessness and unnecessary expenses.
Breaking promises.
Trying to avoid domestic responsibilities.
Desire to have one’s way in every argument.
Less anger but more sarcasm and bitter speech.
Desire to live a showy life.
Being unable to bear the wife’s social popularity due to envy.
Mental distraction due to the effects of the evil eye.
Domestic faults being amplified through black magic.
Always wanting to be the center of attention.
Becoming emotional over small matters.
Considering the home boring.
Making domestic decisions under the pressure of friends.
Living in an imaginary world instead of being realistic.
Having superficial thinking spiritually.
Spending more time outside to avoid the serious atmosphere of the home.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Appreciate his creative abilities and give him opportunities to use them at home.
Try to understand matters in a straightforward manner.
Arrange new routines and small entertainments at home.
Keep communication positive and simple.
Make a budget together with him for financial matters and stick to it.
Show by fulfilling small promises.
Make household chores interesting like a joint game.
Apart from arguments, present your point softly.
Respond to sarcasm with humor, do not get entangled in bitterness.
Explain the benefits of living a simple life.
Give him attention but also give time to children and other relatives.
Understand and acknowledge his feelings.
Start interesting activities at home like music, painting, or gardening.
Invite his close friends home so they can influence him positively.
Talk with him about positive and realistic future plans.
Establish a short but regular habit of prayer at home.
Tell him that home is the place where he can freely use his creative abilities.
