Dear sister, sometimes the reason for domestic discord is not clearly visible. It feels as if a nameless tension is floating in the air. Sensitivity in relationships increases, and even small matters become a cause of hurt. This condition mostly arises when there is a lack of harmony and emotional solidarity in the home environment. If you are also feeling undue pressure and emotional distances in your home, then the following spiritual remedy will prove very beneficial for you.

Wazifa 

To bring softness and harmony to the domestic atmosphere, the Wazifa of “Ya Haleem Ya Sattar” (O Most Forbearing, O Veiler of faults) is very tried and tested. After the Asr prayer on Friday, recite Durood Pak 11 times at the beginning and 11 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Haleem Ya Sattar” 1300 times. Perform this practice continuously for 7 days. Insha’Allah, the tense atmosphere spread inside the home will dissolve, and softness and love will return to the relationships.
After completing this Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Haleem Ya Sattar” 100 times daily, and do not skip it without a genuine necessity so that you may continue to receive the spiritual blessings of this Wazifa.

Causes of Domestic Problems

Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being overly sensitive, emotional, and easily hurt.
Taking every matter personally.
Taking too much time to make decisions or procrastinating.
Hesitation in sharing domestic responsibilities.
Being overly influenced by others’ opinions.
Extreme caution or stinginess in financial matters.
Not being clear in communication with family members.
Paying more attention to negative things.
Hiding one’s feelings and then suddenly flaring up.
Being fearful of change.
Seeing the peace of the home break due to envy.
Constant fear and dread prevailing due to the effects of the evil eye.
Distances created in domestic relationships through black magic.
Lack of self-confidence.
Excessive interest in others’ affairs.
Not being able to create moments of peace at home.
Getting upset over minor matters and adopting silence.
Becoming a messenger between other family members.
Accepting negative effects due to spiritual weakness.
Turning the home into a secure fortress and being afraid of outsiders.

Spiritual Advice

Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 18 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Take care of his delicate feelings, do not rebuke him.
Use a soft and loving tone while talking.
Help him in decisions and give him confidence.
Appreciate his participation in household chores.
Have a good opinion about his friends and relatives.
Make a budget together with him for financial matters.
Be clear and straightforward in communication, do not force him to speculate.
Focus on positive things and praise.
Create a safe environment for him to express his feelings.
Change the routine at home for small joys.
Keep bunches of grapes at home daily to ward off the effects of envy.
Openly praise his successes and qualities.
Keep yourself and him away from gossip and trivial matters.
Use soothing music and fragrances at home.
Do not force conversation during times of silence, wait.
Be a positive ambassador between him and other family members.
Arrange collective prayers and Tasbeeh (remembrance) at home.
Assure him that the home is always a safe and peaceful place for him.