Dear sister, conflicts do occur in domestic life, but when these disagreements keep revolving in the same circle and the path for communication is blocked, they turn the home into a battleground. Usually, people attribute this to financial issues or children’s upbringing, but in reality, its roots are often deeper. If you feel that the peace and tranquility of your home are diminishing and every small matter turns into a dispute, then the spiritual practice given below can help in resolving this domestic tension.
Wazifa
To establish harmony and love in the home, the Wazifa of “Ya Wadud Ya Rahman” (O Most Loving, O Most Merciful) is highly effective. These Asma-ul-Husna are appropriate for your purpose and situation. To begin this practice, after the Fajr prayer on Friday, recite Durood Shareef 7 times at the beginning and 7 times at the end, and in between, recite “Ya Wadud Ya Rahman” 1200 times. Continue this practice consecutively for 11 days. Insha’Allah, you will notice a significant positive change in the domestic atmosphere, and the clouds of discord will clear away.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Wadud Ya Rahman” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without genuine necessity so that you may continue to receive the spiritual blessings of the described Wazifa.
Causes of Domestic Problems
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband’s excessive self-reliance and stubborn nature.
Constant insistence on leadership in the home.
Making quick decisions and then becoming adamant.
Obsession with new beginnings but leaving them incomplete.
Unnecessary criticism and nitpicking.
Instead of listening to others, only insisting on one’s own point.
Issuing one-sided decisions in domestic matters.
Considering one’s opinion as final.
Not valuing the advice of family members.
Getting angry over small matters.
Not being happy about the wife’s successes due to envy.
Mental anxiety due to the effects of the evil eye.
Being prompted towards wrong decisions through black magic.
Taking excessive pride in one’s abilities.
Being unable to tolerate others’ success.
Neglecting the happiness of the home.
Habit of impatience and hastiness.
Considering someone as one’s rival.
Suffering from spiritual insecurity.
Considering the home as one’s personal kingdom.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 20 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Respect his self-reliance, do not oppose it.
Give him the status of a leader in decisions.
Present your opinion softly, do not force it.
Appreciate his new ideas.
Instead of criticism, give advice in a gentle manner.
First listen to him with full attention.
In important matters, definitely consult him.
Express that you value his opinion.
Use phrases like “You know better.”
Talk when the anger has cooled down.
Share your successes with him, do not make it a competition.
Recite Surah Al-Falaq and Surah An-Nas daily for protection from the evil eye.
Recite “Ayat-ul-Kursi” regularly to remove the effects of black magic.
Praise his abilities.
Increase his respect in front of others.
Arrange small joys at home.
Be patient with his hastiness.
Maintain good behavior with his friends and colleagues.
Create an environment of prayer and recitation at home.
Assure him that the home is his safe haven.
