In Muslim society, a woman is considered the foundation of the home, and when this very foundation does not receive peace, the entire system begins to be affected. When pressure increases in married life, the desire for separate living arising in a woman’s heart is a natural thing, because she wants to nurture her relationship with peace. But often she feels helpless in front of circumstances. In such times, if she turns to Allah, her heart gains extraordinary strength. Prayer (dua) makes a person feel that they are not alone, rather their Lord is with them. When prayer is recited with consistency, it becomes a wazifa (a regular devotional practice), which grants both hope and courage. With this same conviction, we are telling you about a spiritual practice that is specifically for Muslim women, and by whose blessings Allah Almighty can create ease in your life.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you want deliverance from difficulties and seek ease, perform the wazifa of “Wa najjina birahmatika minal qawmil kafireen”. This blessed verse is Verse 86 of Surah Yunus, and Surah Yunus is in Para 11. On a Friday, after Isha prayer, recite Durood Sharif 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between recite “Wa najjina birahmatika minal qawmil kafireen” 313 times. Continue this practice for 14 days. Do not keep bitterness in your heart, and hold fast to prayer (dua), salah (regular prayers), and charity (sadaqah). Afterwards, continue reciting Durood Sharif 10 times and this same supplication 10 times daily.
Reasons for Not Taking a Separate House
Dear sister, some individuals are unable to obtain a separate home in life due to being inconsistent, even though they have the money and resources to buy a house, but they do not readily accept any major change. They think that getting a separate home will disrupt the peace of the house, financial stability, or the daily routine.
Sometimes, the effects of jealousy, nazar-e-bad (evil eye), or black magic present in the home create doubt, fear, or confusion in their minds, and they begin to shy away from change.
It is better for the wife to speak with a gentle tone and encouragement while understanding her husband’s strong and self-confident nature. Explain the benefits of a separate home in a realistic manner and reassure the husband that this step will not only bring peace to both their lives but will also strengthen relationships. Continue efforts to reduce jealousy, nazar-e-bad, and negative effects through a positive environment, prayer, and charity. When the wife consistently shows love, cooperation, and understanding, the husband gradually becomes inclined towards a separate home.
We have already told you the first wazifa for quickly obtaining a separate home. You should continue the wazifa along with your worldly efforts for a separate home. Insha’Allah, by the blessings of the wazifa, you will soon achieve success in every worldly effort you make to obtain a separate home.
