Sometimes a woman feels in her married life that although everything is present, her heart does not have the peace it should. Daily bitterness, undue interference, or the burden of responsibilities slowly turns into mental stress. In such a situation, the desire for a separate home emerges as a natural reaction, because a woman wants peace, respect, and private space in her life. However, this path is not always smooth, as practical problems stand before her like a wall. In these circumstances, if anything saves a woman from breaking, it is trust in Allah and the support of prayer (dua). Dua gives hope to the heart and shows the light of the future to the eyes. When prayer is recited regularly, it is called wazifa (a regular devotional practice), which not only gives spiritual strength but also becomes a means of change in circumstances. This is the reason why many women have found solutions to their problems through patience and prayer. We are also presenting for you a similarly effective wazifa that will strengthen your intention and, by Allah’s command, create the means for a separate home for you.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you feel there is an obstacle in decisions, the wazifa of “Wa ufawwidu amri ilallah, innallaha basirum bil’ibad” is very beneficial. This blessed verse is Verse 44 of Surah Ghafir, and Surah Ghafir is in Para 24. On a Friday, after the Isha prayer, recite Durood Sharif 10 times, then recite “Wa ufawwidu amri ilallah, innallaha basirum bil’ibad” 313 times, and at the end recite Durood Sharif 10 times. Continue this practice for 14 days. Along with this, keep your heart clean, reduce complaints, and take special care of your prayers (salah) and charity (sadaqah). Afterwards, continue reciting Durood Sharif 10 times and this same supplication 10 times daily.
Reasons for Not Taking a Separate House
Dear sister, some individuals face countless failures and obstacles in life. They feel they are suffering from an unlucky life. They often also think that they will never get a separate home, even while they want to obtain one. Meaning, they are afraid of uncertain situations and potential difficulties. They feel that getting a separate home might create problems in daily tasks, financial matters, or family relationships. Sometimes, the jealousy, nazar-e-bad (evil eye), or black magic present in the home creates fear and anxiety in their minds, due to which they consider it safer to maintain the current arrangement.
It is better for the wife to speak with patience and gentleness while understanding her husband’s practical nature. The benefits of a separate home should be explained with simple and real examples, so that the husband becomes convinced that this decision is safe and beneficial. He should be made to feel secure through financial planning and discipline. Simultaneously, efforts should be made to reduce the effects of jealousy, nazar-e-bad, and black magic through prayer, charity, and a positive environment. When the wife shows consistency, cooperation, and understanding, the husband gradually becomes inclined towards a separate home.
We have already told you the first wazifa for quickly obtaining a separate home. You should continue the wazifa along with your worldly efforts for a separate home. Insha’Allah, by the blessings of the wazifa, you will soon achieve success in every worldly effort you make to obtain a separate home.
