Many Muslim women in their married life feel that over time, their peace of heart decreases and mental stress increases, especially when the home environment is no longer peaceful or when there is undue interference in daily matters. In such situations, it is a completely natural feeling for a woman to wish for a separate home where she can live with her husband in peace and with respect. This wish is neither stubbornness nor selfishness; rather, it is a natural feeling that arises in the heart of every woman who wants to save and improve her relationship. However, the reality is that fulfilling this wish is not always easy, because financial problems, family pressure, and social obstacles often stand in the way. In such times, the strongest support for a Muslim woman is available in the form of dua (supplication), because dua both changes the state of the heart and alters the direction of circumstances. When a servant sincerely places their need before Allah, He makes the impossible possible. Wazifa (a regular practice of supplication) is essentially a structured method of this continuous prayer, which strengthens the heart and purifies the intention. That is why we are going to tell you about a special wazifa that is very beneficial for Muslim women, and by whose blessings Allah Almighty may very soon create the means for you to have a separate home.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you wish that your husband obtain a separate home as soon as possible, then for this purpose, the wazifa of “Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer” will prove to be the most beneficial for you. This blessed verse is Verse 24 of Surah Al-Qasas in the Holy Quran, and Surah Al-Qasas is in Para 20. For this wazifa, on a Friday, after the Isha prayer, recite Durood Sharif 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between, recite “Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer” 313 times with love and focus. Perform this wazifa only after the Isha prayer and continue it consistently for 14 days. Insha’Allah, after 14 days, the means for your husband to obtain a separate home will begin to appear. Along with this, it is also essential that you do not harbor hatred or bitterness towards anyone in your heart, complain less and pray more, be regular in your prayers (especially the Fajr prayer), and if possible, give a little charity once a week. After completing the wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Sharif 10 times and this same supplication 10 times daily so that the spiritual blessings of this wazifa remain permanently established.
Reasons for Not Taking a Separate House
Often, husbands who have a deep emotional attachment to the joint family system avoid getting a separate home because they see themselves as the family’s protector and consider separating from parents or siblings as akin to disloyalty. Along with this, sometimes the effects of nazar-e-bad (evil eye), jealousy, or hidden negative influences in the home environment also affect their decisions. This creates fear, confusion, or unnecessary apprehensions in their mind that if they separate, they will suffer a loss. In some cases, the effect of black magic or intense jealousy causes the husband’s thinking to stagnate; he begins to see every change as a threat and also perceives his wife’s words as pressure or stubbornness. Consequently, he adopts a stubborn attitude and moves further away from the idea of a separate home.
In such a situation, it is better for you to understand your husband’s nature and instead of making direct demands or complaints, act with gentleness, wisdom, and emotional understanding. The husband should be made to feel that the purpose of getting a separate home is not distance from the family, but rather peace, privacy, and a better married life. The conversation should be held at a time when the husband is mentally calm, and it should be explained through examples that even while living at a reasonable distance, serving and respecting parents is entirely possible. Simultaneously, by promoting charity, prayer, and a positive atmosphere at home, the effects of nazar-e-bad and jealousy can be reduced. If a wife consistently provides feelings of trust, respect, and companionship, then gradually the husband’s fear decreases, his thinking becomes more flexible, and he himself begins to conclude that a separate home could actually be a better decision for both him and his relationship.
