The lack of peace in married life becomes the greatest trial for a woman. In such times, the desire for a separate home arising in the heart is completely natural. Although this path seems difficult, it can be made easy through prayer (dua). Wazifa (a regular devotional practice) grants a person patience, courage, and conviction. With this same hope, we are telling you about a special spiritual practice which, by Allah’s command, can become the means to fulfill your wish.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you wish for goodness and deliverance for your family, perform the wazifa of “Rabbi najjini wa ahli mimma ya’maloon”. This blessed verse is Verse 169 of Surah Ash-Shu’ara, and Surah Ash-Shu’ara is in Para 19. On a Friday, after the Isha prayer, recite Durood Sharif 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between recite “Rabbi najjini wa ahli mimma ya’maloon” 313 times. Continue this practice for 14 days. Do not keep hatred in your heart, be regular in your prayers (especially Fajr), and give charity (sadaqah). Afterwards, continue reciting Durood Sharif 10 times and this same supplication 10 times daily.
Reasons for Not Taking a Separate House
Dear sister, we feel that your husband has an anxious nature and he thinks excessively and without purpose. Perhaps your husband believes that getting a separate home will increase his difficulties and troubles; this very fear prevents him from getting a separate home.
Additionally, sometimes the effects of nazar-e-bad (evil eye), jealousy, and black magic enter their body, and such effects prevent a person from making every positive decision.
It is better for the wife to speak with gentleness, trust, and love while understanding the husband’s analytical and sensitive nature. The benefits of a separate home should be explained in simple and realistic terms, and he should be assured that this step is not about distance from the family, but for peace and happiness. The effects of jealousy, nazar-e-bad, and black magic should be reduced through prayer, charity, and a positive environment. When the wife consistently provides companionship, support, and encouragement, the husband gradually becomes inclined towards a separate home.
We have already told you the first wazifa for quickly obtaining a separate home. You should continue the wazifa along with your worldly efforts for a separate home. Insha’Allah, by the blessings of the wazifa, you will soon achieve success in every worldly effort you make to obtain a separate home.
