Many women silently continue to endure difficulties in their married life, but in some corner of their heart, the desire for a peaceful, separate home certainly exists. This desire is not to break anyone, but to strengthen oneself. When worldly measures fail, prayer (dua) becomes the path that keeps hope alive. Wazifa (a regular devotional practice) is essentially a form of this very prayer, which helps strengthen the heart and make circumstances favorable. We have brought a similar wazifa for you which, Insha’Allah, will ease your difficulty.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you wish to ask Allah for the right path and goodness, adopt the wazifa of “Rabbi inni a’uzu bika an as’alaka ma laysa li bihi ‘ilm“. This blessed verse is Verse 47 of Surah Hud, and Surah Hud is in Para 12. On a Friday, after Isha prayer, recite Durood Sharif 10 times, then recite “Rabbi inni a’uzu bika an as’alaka ma laysa li bihi ‘ilm” 313 times, and at the end recite Durood Sharif 10 times. In 14 days, Insha’Allah, improvement will come. Keep your heart clean, and be regular in your prayers (salah) and charity (sadaqah). Afterwards, continue reciting Durood Sharif 10 times and this same supplication 10 times daily.
Reasons for Not Taking a Separate House
Husbands who are responsible towards their family and have an emotional nature often hesitate to get a separate home because they consider the impact of every decision on the happiness and peace of the family. They feel that getting a separate home might cause displeasure or discord among parents or relatives. Sometimes, the jealousy, nazar-e-bad (evil eye), or black magic present in the home increases their fear and anxiety, causing them to view every new change as a danger. They want every step to be safe and beneficial for everyone.
It is better for the wife to speak with gentleness and love while understanding her husband’s sensitive and responsible nature. Explain the benefits of a separate home in a realistic manner and reassure him that this step is not about distancing from the family, but for peace and happiness. Reduce jealousy, nazar-e-bad, and negative effects through a positive environment, prayer, charity, and expressions of love. When the wife consistently provides trust, companionship, and encouragement, the husband gradually becomes inclined towards a separate home.
We have already told you the first wazifa for quickly obtaining a separate home. You should continue the wazifa along with your worldly efforts for a separate home. Insha’Allah, by the blessings of the wazifa, you will soon achieve success in every worldly effort you make to obtain a separate home.
