When restlessness and pressure take the place of peace in married life, its effects on a woman’s heart are very deep, because a woman’s heart is directly connected to the home environment. If she constantly faces stress, bitterness in conversations, or powerlessness in decisions, her heart naturally begins to desire a safe and peaceful place. This is the moment when the thought of separate living comes to mind, which is a legitimate and natural wish for any Muslim woman. However, many difficulties stand in the way of fulfilling this wish, such as a lack of financial resources or the fear of displeasing the family. In such delicate situations, if anything supports a woman’s heart, it is her faith in Allah and the supplication (dua) made to Him. Dua is not just a collection of words, but a spiritual connection that links the servant to their Lord. When dua is made consistently, it takes the form of wazifa (a regular devotional practice), which not only gives peace to the heart but also creates ease in circumstances. This is why women who carry patience and prayer with them often find paths that appear outwardly blocked. We are telling you about a spiritual practice that is especially for Muslim women, and by whose blessings Allah Almighty can quickly turn this wish of your heart into reality.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you wish for the doors of a separate home to open for your husband, the wazifa of “Rabbi anzilni munzalan mubarakan wa anta khairul munzileen” is highly effective. This blessed verse is Verse 29 of Surah Al-Mu’minun, and Surah Al-Mu’minun is in Para 18. For this wazifa, on a Friday, after the Isha prayer, recite Durood Sharif 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between, recite “Rabbi anzilni munzalan mubarakan wa anta khairul munzileen” 313 times. Continue this practice for 14 days; Insha’Allah, ease in your circumstances will begin to appear. Keep your heart clean, complain less, be regular in your prayers (especially Fajr), and give charity once a week. Later, make it a habit to recite Durood Sharif 10 times and this same supplication 10 times daily.
Reasons for Not Taking a Separate House
Often, husbands who are emotionally sensitive, those who seek balance in relationships and let the feelings of others dominate their own selves, hesitate to get a separate home because they become anxious just from the thought of displeasing or hurting someone. They live in constant fear that if they adopt separate living, it might create discord, ill will, or accusations within the family. Sometimes, the jealousy or nazar-e-bad (evil eye) present in the home environment places an invisible burden on such a husband’s heart, causing him to lose the ability to make decisions. In cases of black magic or negative spiritual influences, he experiences unnecessary delusions, strange dreams, or heart restlessness, and this very state makes him retreat from every major decision. Thus, he begins to consider tolerating the current situation as easier and viewing new beginnings as dangerous.
In such a situation, the effective path for the wife is to speak by understanding her husband’s emotional side, rather than pressuring him. He should be assured that getting a separate home is not a step against anyone, but a means for mutual peace and strengthening the marital relationship. It is essential to make the husband feel that he will not be alone, but that his wife stands with him in every decision. Gradually, the point should be included in conversations that love and service to the family can be maintained even while living at a reasonable distance. Simultaneously, efforts should be made to reduce jealousy, nazar-e-bad, and negative effects through charity, prayer, and a positive mindset. When the wife consistently provides gentleness, encouragement, and emotional security, the fear within the husband begins to decrease, his confidence is restored, and he himself starts to conclude that a separate home can actually bring peace and balance for everyone.
We have already told you the first wazifa for quickly obtaining a separate home. You should continue the wazifa along with your worldly efforts for a separate home. Insha’Allah, by the blessings of the wazifa, you will soon achieve success in every worldly effort you make to obtain a separate home.
