When a husband, in the presence of his first wife, intends to marry a second time, it becomes a devastating tragedy that shatters her entire world. It is a time when the safe refuge before her eyes seems to crumble. On this occasion, some Muslim women, keeping the decree of religion in mind, keep their tongues tied. They do not complain. But behind this outward silence, their hearts are in turmoil. They suffer from internal suffocation, restlessness, fear, and desolation. In contrast, some women openly oppose and try in every way to prevent this new relationship from forming.
If you leave no stone unturned in fulfilling your responsibilities, yet your husband is still moving toward a second marriage due to love for another, then there is no need to lose heart. Through spiritual remedies, i.e., prayers and wazifas (prescribed invocations), the situation can be changed. By their blessings, a change can be brought about in the husband’s heart, and for this purpose, we are telling you a specific wazifa.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you are sincere with your husband, yet despite this, your husband wishes to neglect you and marry another, then in such a situation, his negative decision can be changed through the wazifa of “Hasbunallahu la ilaha illa Huwa, ‘alayhi tawakkaltu” (“Sufficient for us is Allah, there is no deity except Him; upon Him I have relied”).
This blessed prayer in Arabic is mentioned above.
For the wazifa of “Hasbunallahu la ilaha illa Huwa, ‘alayhi tawakkaltu”, after the Isha prayer on Friday, first and last, recite the Durood Shareef (blessings upon the Prophet) 10 times each. In between, lovingly recite the blessed prayer “Hasbunallahu la ilaha illa Huwa, ‘alayhi tawakkaltu” 313 times.
The described wazifa is to be performed only after the Isha prayer, and you must continue this wazifa for 14 days. God willing, within 14 days, Allah’s Being will create intense love for you in your husband’s heart, because of which he can reject every wrong decision of his.
After the wazifa is complete, make a habit of reciting Durood Shareef 10 times and “Hasbunallahu la ilaha illa Huwa, ‘alayhi tawakkaltu” 10 times daily so that you may continue to receive the spiritual blessings of this wazifa.
Note that if there is a break in the wazifa, the wazifa will not break. However, if you miss a prescribed prayer (namaz), because of this your wazifa will break. Prayer is more important than wazifa; therefore, do not miss your prayers under any circumstances.
Reasons for a Second Marriage
Dear sister, a wazifa is a means of obtaining spiritual help, and due to spiritual help, your married life remains safe from all kinds of harm. That is, the wazifa is better in its place, but despite this, you also need to know the apparent and spiritual reasons at work behind your husband’s second marriage. These reasons will tell you where the mistake is and what more you need to do. The possible reasons for a husband’s second marriage are listed below.
They naturally desire an engaging atmosphere and when feeling bored, become inclined towards new attractions.
If emotional attention is received less, a void is created in their hearts.
The wife’s indifference makes them feel lonely inside.
If they do not receive praise and acceptance, they seek these things elsewhere.
A highly sensitive nature disheartens them even over small matters.
If there is constant tension at home, they seek peace outside.
Constant interference on every matter puts them in a state of mental suffocation.
If the wife does not understand their emotional language, distance increases.
A feeling of loneliness draws them towards a new relationship.
If restrictions are placed on the freedom of their personality, they think of a second marriage in reaction.
If there is doubt instead of love at home, they become distant at heart.
If too many expectations are not met, they choose the wrong path in disappointment.
The wife’s constant criticism breaks their confidence.
Pressure from family or friends can incite them to take this step.
Emotional insecurity compels them to seek security in a new relationship.
It is believed that due to the evil eye (nazar), love between husband and wife decreases.
It is said that due to the effect of black magic, unease and aversion arise in the heart.
It is thought that due to an enemy’s envy, misunderstandings increase in the relationship.
Spiritual restlessness inclines them to seek emotional support away from home.
If they do not find inner happiness, they assume a second marriage to be the solution.
The Husband’s Nature and Your Conduct
Every husband’s nature is different, but often men want their words to be heard and their respect to be maintained. If the husband feels that he is constantly facing criticism or his efforts are not being valued, he begins to feel distance in his heart. You must keep in mind that a soft tone and speaking at an appropriate time bring hearts closer. Harshness may give temporary relief but creates cracks in the relationship. This does not mean you should compromise your self-respect, but rather that you should speak with wisdom and not let the matter escalate into an argument.
Advice and Guidance
Along with prayer, you should also try practically to improve the environment. Be mindful of your husband’s respect in front of him, and especially do not let him feel inferior in front of others. Listen to his worries and make him feel that you are with him. Develop the habit of giving charity at home because charity wards off calamity and reduces the effect of the evil eye. Observing prayers regularly and creating an atmosphere of remembrance of Allah at home softens hearts. At the same time, do not neglect yourself; take care of your health, your personality, and your dignity. When a woman herself is strong and confident, her very presence has an effect on her husband’s heart.
Finally, remember that Allah knows the condition of hearts and He does not waste anyone’s tears. If you adopt this path with patience, consistency, and faith, then God willing, the circumstances will change. Do not consider yourself weak and keep your trust in Allah from the heart, for He is the best of decision-makers.
