News of a husband’s second marriage is profoundly distressing for the first wife, shaking her to her core. In such a situation, many Muslim women maintain outward silence due to religious teachings, suppressing their grief and protest within their hearts. But this silence does not end the inner war they fight; they continue to suffer conflict, deep anxiety, fears about the future, and a strange loneliness. On the other hand, some women oppose such a marriage and try by all means to prevent it.
If you are a wife fulfilling all your husband’s rightful rights with honesty, yet he still wishes to take this step due to infatuation with another, do not despair. Turn to prayers and wazifa (spiritual practices), for spiritual help can make the impossible possible. We are telling you a practice that can, with Allah’s help, change your husband’s intentions.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you are sincere with your husband, yet he neglects you and wishes to marry another, then in such a situation, his negative decision can be changed through the wazifa of “Iyyaka na’budu wa iyyaka nasta’een” (from Surah Al-Fatihah, meaning: “You alone we worship, and You alone we ask for help”).
For this wazifa, after the Isha prayer on Friday, first and last, recite the Durood Shareef 10 times each. In between, lovingly recite the prayer “Iyyaka na’budu wa iyyaka nasta’een” 313 times.
Perform the described practice only after the Isha prayer and continue it for 14 days. God willing, within 14 days, Allah will create intense love for you in your husband’s heart, causing him to reject his every wrong decision.
After completing the practice, make a habit of reciting Durood Shareef 10 times and “Iyyaka na’budu wa iyyaka nasta’een” 10 times daily to continue receiving its spiritual blessings.
Note: Missing a day of the practice will not break it. However, if you miss a mandatory prayer (namaz), your practice will be broken. Prayer is more important than any practice; therefore, do not miss your prayers under any circumstances.
Reasons for a Second Marriage
Dear sister, a wazifa is a means of seeking spiritual help, and through spiritual help, your marital life remains safe from all harm. While the practice is beneficial, you still need to understand the apparent and spiritual reasons behind your husband’s desire for a second marriage. These reasons will tell you where the fault lies and what more you need to do. The potential reasons are listed below:
He emotionally craves more attention and, not receiving it, inclines towards a second marriage.
Constant fights at home lead him to seek peace elsewhere.
The wife’s coldness creates distance in his heart.
Feeling undervalued, he seeks respect and appreciation from someone else.
An overly sensitive nature causes him to become quickly disheartened.
The wife’s criticism makes him feel broken inside.
A feeling of loneliness draws him towards a new relationship.
If there is unrest at home, he looks for peace outside.
The wife’s inattention creates a void in his heart.
Pressure from family or friends sometimes pushes him towards a second marriage.
If his ego is hurt, he may take this step as revenge.
A lack of love pushes him towards emotional weakness.
Escaping domestic responsibilities shows him a new path.
Incompatibility with the wife affects his decisions.
If there is constant mistrust at home, he becomes distant.
It is believed that the evil eye can cause love between spouses to diminish.
It is said that the effects of black magic can create unease and distance in the heart.
It is thought that an enemy’s envy can cause cracks in the relationship.
Spiritual or psychological unrest inclines him towards a new connection.
Not finding satisfaction in his own personality, he sees a second marriage as a solution.
The Husband’s Nature and Your Conduct
Every man’s nature is different. Some men crave praise and attention; they need to feel that they are important to the home. If a husband feels he is constantly ignored or his words are not valued, he may start developing attachments outside.
You must ensure your tone is soft during conversations. Harsh words may provide momentary satisfaction but build walls between hearts. This does not mean you sacrifice your self-respect, but rather that you speak with wisdom. The right timing and approach are half the battle won.
