When the news of a husband’s intention to marry again reaches the first wife, it is not just “news” but an earthquake that shakes her entire world from its foundations. It is the moment when her world, which she considered safe, suddenly becomes unsafe, unstable, and uncertain.
When a husband marries a second time, some Muslim women choose to remain silent, keeping religious injunctions in mind. Despite this silence, they suffer intense conflict, anxiety, fear, and loneliness. Meanwhile, some women oppose such a marriage and try every possible means to prevent it.
If you fulfill all your husband’s rights, but despite this, your husband desires to marry another, lost in infatuation, then through prayer and supplication (wazifa), his intention can be changed to refusal. This is the practice we are telling you about.
Wazifa
Dear sister, if you are sincere with your husband, yet he neglects you and wishes to marry another, then in such a situation, his negative decision can be changed through the practice (wazifa) of “Rabbir Ham” (a supplication meaning “My Lord, have mercy”).
This blessed prayer in Arabic is written above. For the wazifa of “Rabbir Ham,” after the Isha prayer on Friday, first and last, recite the Durood Shareef (blessings upon the Prophet) 10 times each. In between, recite the blessed prayer “Rabbir Ham” 313 times with love.
The described practice is to be performed only after the Isha prayer. You must continue this practice for 14 days. God willing, within 14 days, Allah will create intense love for you in your husband’s heart, causing him to reject all his wrong decisions.
After completing the practice, make a habit of reciting the Durood Shareef 10 times and “Rabbir Ham” 10 times daily so that you may continue to receive its spiritual blessings.
Note that if you miss a day, the practice is not broken. However, if you miss a mandatory prayer (namaz), your practice will break. Prayer is more important than any practice; therefore, do not miss your prayers under any circumstances.
Spiritual Effects and Reasons
It is important for you to know that obstacles in a husband’s livelihood, job, or business often affect his behavior. When a man is under financial pressure or does not see the fruits of his labor, he becomes mentally restless. In this restlessness, he sometimes starts looking toward wrong paths. The evil eye, envy, and sometimes black magic also create undue attraction and unease in a person’s heart. Negligence in prayer and not giving charity also become major causes of spiritual weakness, directly affecting the peace of the home. If the husband distances himself from worship, the balance in his decisions disappears, and he begins to prioritize temporary pleasure over permanent relationships.
Reasons for a Second Marriage
Dear sister, prayer practice is a means of seeking spiritual help. Through spiritual help, your marital life remains safe from all harm. While the practice is beneficial in its own right, you still need to understand the apparent and spiritual reasons behind your husband’s desire for a second marriage. These reasons will tell you where the fault lies and what more you need to do. The potential reasons for a husband’s second marriage are listed below:
He naturally considers himself a leader and wants everything his way.
When the wife does not meet his expectations, he becomes disheartened.
He often makes major decisions based on stubbornness rather than emotions.
Constant arguments and disputes in the home push him away from the relationship.
Not receiving praise and attention makes him feel unimportant.
After financial success, he desires more authority and freedom.
If the wife criticizes him, he takes it to heart as a matter of ego.
He believes a second marriage will increase his honor or status.
Family interference in domestic matters makes him more rigid.
He starts feeling that his sacrifices are not being valued.
At times, he becomes convinced that the evil eye is affecting him, ruining the relationship.
He starts to suspect that someone, out of envy, has cast a negative influence on his home.
If he becomes convinced that black magic has been performed on him, he becomes mentally weak.
He inclines towards a new partner seeking emotional comfort.
The wife’s inattention makes him feel lonely.
He cannot tolerate questions on his decisions and becomes more stubborn.
Business or social pressures distance him from home.
He comes to believe that a second marriage will solve his problems.
When he feels his respect is diminishing at home, he looks for an alternative path.
Ultimately, he decides on a second marriage due to a mix of emotions, ego, and doubts.
Spiritual Counsel
Alongside praying for your husband, also strive to improve the environment practically. Respect him in front of others, especially. Sit with him and listen to his worries, even if they seem trivial to you. At the same time, connect your heart to Allah, for only He is the Turner of Hearts. Start giving charity according to your means, even if it is little, for charity wards off calamities. Maintaining prayers and creating an environment of Quranic recitation at home also eliminates negative effects.
