My dear sister, in the life of every husband and wife, both joy and sorrow come. Due to these circumstances, sometimes closeness increases, and sometimes distance sets in. If love is strong, the relationship always remains protected. But if love becomes weak, doubt and misunderstandings can harm the relationship. That is why we have especially told you an easy wazifa (spiritual practice) that will deepen the love between you further.
Wazifa
If you feel anxiety regarding your husband and wish that Allah Himself improves the situation, then on Friday after Isha, recite Durood Shareef 10 times. Then, with complete trust (tawakkul), recite “Wa Ufawwidu Amree Ilallah, Innalaha Baseerun Bil-‘Ibad” (And I entrust my affair to Allah. Indeed, Allah is Seeing of [His] servants) 313 times. Finally, recite Durood Shareef another 10 times. Perform this practice regularly for 14 days. God willing, your husband’s attitude will begin to soften, and love between you will start to increase. Afterwards, continue reciting Durood Shareef 10 times and this same supplication 100 times daily.
Special Advice: Keep complete faith in your heart that Allah is the Best Decider. Keep sweetness in your speech, maintain a peaceful atmosphere at home, and always adopt gratitude so that the doors of mercy remain open.
Reasons for Decreased Love from Husband
Dear sister, there can be countless reasons for a decrease in a husband’s love, which may be linked to habits, emotions, likes and dislikes, and daily pressures. Additionally, due to spiritual reasons, love for his wife in a husband’s heart can also decrease. We have told you a few such important reasons that can cause a decrease in a husband’s love. You should understand these reasons and act as instructed. God willing, improvement in your marital life will begin soon.
These reasons are listed below:
Financial pressure can bring bitterness to their behavior, so avoid unnecessary demands.
Less expression of emotions can create coldness, so continuously express love.
Insisting on your opinion can upset them, so be patient during disagreements.
Getting angry quickly over small things can create distance in the relationship, so speak softly.
Bitter memories of the past remain in the heart, so do not remind them of old matters.
Others’ opinions or family influences can create gaps in the relationship, so do not interfere unnecessarily.
Giving excessive emphasis to your freedom or personal time can distance them, so respect their private space.
Taking time to resolve emotional issues can create coldness in the relationship, so approach with patience.
Sometimes being busy in thoughts can reduce your importance, so adopt a positive attitude.
Spiritual Reasons
The evil eye, envy, or negative energy can create coldness in their heart. Sometimes black magic or the dislike of a family member also has an effect.
Remember, whether the reasons for the decrease in a husband’s love are spiritual or apparent, in both cases, your distress can be removed by the blessings of the previously mentioned wazifa. However, your wisdom lies in trying to revive love in your husband’s heart through both apparent and spiritual means.