Sometimes it happens that the husband’s attention shifts away from the home or he starts ignoring the wife’s words. In such times, the wife’s heart is very hurt, but instead of showing an emotional reaction, one should act with wisdom. We will tell you about some Wazifas and prayers that will slowly melt your husband’s heart and turn him back towards you. These Wazifas are very simple, which you can even recite discreetly. We will also explain to you what intention should be in your heart while reciting these Wazifas and what things are necessary to keep in mind. Along with these spiritual practices, your soft attitude and good manners will also have a great effect.
Wazifa
To establish peace and tranquility between you and your husband and to completely eliminate any apprehension of divorce, the Wazifa of Allah’s attributive names “Ya Allah Ya Quddus Ya Salam” (O Allah, O Most Holy, O Source of Peace) is very beneficial. Start it after the Isha prayer on Friday night: first and last, recite Durood Shareef 10 times each, and in between, remember “Ya Allah Ya Quddus Ya Salam” 1200 times. Continue this practice continuously for a full 14 days, daily without a break. Insha’Allah, after this, special peace and purity from Allah will descend in your home, which will end tension and disagreements. After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Allah Ya Quddus Ya Salam” 100 times daily so that your household always remains peaceful. These names will create sanctity and harmony in your relationship.
Causes of Divorce
Keep in mind that when bitterness or the threat of divorce looms in a husband-wife relationship, it does not happen without some real or spiritual reason. Our estimate is that if a rift is forming between you and your husband, some factors from the following 20 motives could be at work in the background.
Wife continuously displaying superficial thinking and inactivity.
Continuously not understanding or mocking the husband’s mental and spiritual thinking.
Not respecting the husband’s times of solitude and contemplation.
Continuous lying, deceit, or violation of privacy.
Wife giving irrational and emotional reactions in every matter.
Obstructing the husband’s study, research, and intellectual activities.
Making the home a center of noise and conflict instead of mental peace.
Mocking the husband’s beliefs and spiritual inclinations.
Continuously wasting the husband’s time in useless matters.
Not trying to understand the husband’s inner thoughts and feelings.
Criticizing the husband’s intelligence or habits in front of others.
Completely irrational and disorganized attitude in domestic matters.
Unauthorized interference in the husband’s private life, diary, or personal thoughts.
Belittling the husband’s academic achievements based on envy.
Creating an environment of anxiety and fear in the home due to evil eye or negative gazes.
Causing negative effects on the husband’s mental abilities and intellect through black magic.
Ignoring spiritual or psychological problems instead of solving them.
Not participating in deep mental and philosophical discussions with the husband.
Attitude of hiding matters or emotional blackmail.
Attitude that destroys the husband’s inner peace and spiritual solace.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, to create harmony with your husband, it is essential that you value his emotions, try to understand his spiritual condition. When you give importance to his needs, he will also leave no stone unturned in fulfilling your desires. Therefore, we have presented some suggestions; understand and adopt them, Insha’Allah your future will be bright.
Understand his deep thinking and need for solitude.
Respect his mental and spiritual journey.
Avoid useless talk or superficial matters.
Praise his wisdom and insight.
Give him space for personal privacy and contemplation.
Participate in meaningful and philosophical conversation.
Challenge his analytical mind.
Avoid undue demands or emotional pressure.
Maintain secrecy and mystique.
Understand his interest in knowledge and reading.
Avoid noise that disturbs his nerves.
Accept his unusual thinking.
Maintain softness and depth in emotional expression.
Focus more on mental connection than material things.
Do not ignore his doubts and questions.
Be patient because they open up slowly.
Support him in his spiritual or academic quest.
Provide a peaceful and harmonious environment.
Try to understand his inner conflicts.
Show love with simplicity and depth.
