Dear sister, sometimes the cause of a domestic problem is just a silent compromise. There is no conversation from either side, only grievances growing in silence. Even though physically present, spiritual distances are increasing. This happens when there is no spiritual and mental harmony in the home. If there is an atmosphere of silence, distrust, or secrecy in your home, this practice will help bring you closer.
Wazifa
For spiritual closeness, trust, and deep connection in the home, perform the Wazifa of “Ya Quddus Ya Salam” (O Most Holy, O Source of Peace). For this Wazifa, after the Isha prayer on Friday, recite Durood Shareef 10 times at the beginning and 10 times at the end, and in between, recite “Ya Quddus Ya Salam” 1400 times.
You must perform this Wazifa only after the Isha prayer and continue it for 14 days. Insha’Allah, after 14 days, you will begin to find relief from domestic problems.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Quddus Ya Salam” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without a genuine necessity.
Gharelu Pareshani Ki Wajohat
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being overly thoughtful and quiet.
Hiding emotions and letting them fester inside.
Preferring solitude and avoiding domestic gatherings.
Looking for a philosophical or mysterious aspect in everything.
Being very cautious but worrisome in financial matters.
Being impractical in domestic matters.
Difficulty in trusting.
Insisting too much on secrecy.
Not including family members in one’s world.
Taking criticism personally and remembering it for a long time.
Doubts about the wife’s social life due to envy.
Depression and despair due to the effects of the evil eye.
Mental disturbance and confusion created through black magic.
Constantly thinking about past mistakes.
Not participating in domestic joys.
Extremism in spiritual or religious matters.
Considering the home only a resting place, not an emotional connection.
Emotional distance from children.
Being lost in oneself.
Unrealistic concerns about the future.
Rohani Mashwara
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Respect his thinking and contemplation.
Provide a quiet and peaceful environment for him to express his emotions.
Give him time for solitude but also invite him to sit together.
Create opportunities for deep and meaningful conversations.
Plan to alleviate his financial worries.
Make domestic matters simple and practical.
Prove through your actions to gain trust.
Respect his privacy but be open about your life.
Take an interest in his interests and hobbies.
Avoid criticism, adopt a constructive approach.
Do not bring up past matters, focus on the present.
Gradually include him in domestic entertainment.
Make spiritual worship simple, peaceful, and pleasant.
Make the home emotionally warm.
Connect with him through the children.
Learn the art of sitting with him in silence.
Talk about positive and realistic future plans.
