Dear sister, sometimes the cause of domestic problems is the world outside the four walls of the home. It seems as if there is a clash between home life and outside life. The husband, weary of home, starts spending more time outside, or the outside engagements are preventing attention towards home. This is a sign of conflict between freedom and restrictions. If this condition is also in your home, then the following practice can be useful for you.
Wazifa
To establish balance between home and outside life and to increase love towards the home, perform the Wazifa of “Ya Wahhab Ya Ghaffar” (O Bestower, O Forgiver). On Thursday, before Isha, recite Durood Shareef 5 times at the beginning and 5 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Wahhab Ya Ghaffar” 1400 times. Continue this practice for 14 days. Insha’Allah, the husband’s attention will be drawn towards the home, and he will start prioritizing it.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Wahhab Ya Ghaffar” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without a genuine necessity.
Gharelu Pareshani Ki Wajohat
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being extremely freedom-loving and restless.
Considering domestic restrictions as an attack on one’s freedom.
Being afraid of loneliness or solitude.
Always seeking new places, people, and experiences.
Irregularity or unnecessary competition in financial matters.
Inability to keep promises.
Getting quickly bored with domestic routines.
Emotional inconsistency.
Being very talkative but lacking depth.
Avoiding admitting mistakes.
Criticizing the wife’s consistency due to envy.
Anxiety and restlessness due to the effects of the evil eye.
Disgust with the home being created through black magic.
Running away from responsibilities.
Considering the home a prison.
Prioritizing friends and outsiders over family members.
Becoming emotional when making decisions.
Irregular worship spiritually.
Neglecting the security and stability of the home.
Having unrealistic dreams about the future.
Rohani Mashwara
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Respect his freedom and passion but also clarify boundaries.
Transform domestic restrictions into interesting challenges.
Make new and interesting programs to spend time with him.
Make joint plans to travel and visit new places.
Help him in financial matters to have fun while staying within the budget.
Show by keeping small promises.
Bring small changes in daily home life.
Understand his emotional fluctuations and be patient with them.
Create opportunities for deep and meaningful conversations.
Do not exaggerate mistakes, forgive them.
Give him small responsibilities and reward him upon completion.
Make the home an interesting and attractive place where he feels free.
Invite his close and positive friends home.
Include him in decisions and give logical arguments instead of being emotional.
Make spiritual worship short but consistent.
Create a feeling of security and comfort at home.
Work together with him on practical and interesting future plans.
