Dear sister, one form of domestic problem is when the very foundations of the home begin to shake. It feels as if something is constantly falling and is difficult to manage. This condition often prevails when there is a severe lack of discipline, routine, and stability in the home. If your home is suffering from disorder, financial uncertainty, or constant changes, it is a sign of domestic instability, for which the following spiritual practice is helpful.
Wazifa
For keeping the home stable, orderly, and founded on strong foundations, the Wazifa of “Ya Mateen Ya Qahhar” (O Most Strong, O Subduer) is very beneficial. On Monday, after the Maghrib prayer, recite Durood Shareef 4 times at the beginning and 4 times at the end. Then, in between, recite “Ya Mateen Ya Qahhar” 1400 times. Continue this practice consecutively for 14 days. Insha’Allah, the foundations of the home will become strong, and stability will come in financial and domestic matters.
After completing the Wazifa, make it a habit to recite Durood Shareef 10 times and “Ya Mateen Ya Qahhar” 100 times daily, and do not skip this practice without a genuine necessity.
Gharelu Pareshani Ki Wajohat
Dear sister, among the problems that appear in life, domestic problems are the most important, but these problems do not appear without reason. Domestic disputes or problems are in some way connected to the husband, and we believe the 20 reasons listed below could be the cause of your domestic problems.
Husband being very hardworking but lacking flexibility and gentleness.
Extreme effort to keep everything under control.
Rigid insistence on traditions and rules.
Excessive emphasis on financial saving.
Resistance to change and new ideas.
Being too commanding in domestic matters.
Stinginess in emotional expression.
Going to extremes in practicality.
Considering entertainment and relaxation a waste of time.
Unnecessary criticism of family members and constant correction.
Criticizing the wife’s happiness and comfort due to envy.
An atmosphere of constant fear and doubt due to the effects of the evil eye.
Harshness and anxiety increased in the home through black magic.
Considering one’s own work most important.
Ignoring the joys of home and only fulfilling responsibilities.
Lack of softness in communication.
Not valuing others’ opinions in decisions.
Being too formal and dry spiritually.
Considering the home a factory or office.
Maintaining distance from other family members.
Rohani Mashwara
Dear sister, if you want to always remain protected from domestic disputes and problems, then for this, you should also adopt a strategy by understanding your husband’s temperament and psychology. We have discovered 17 things about your husband; if you understand and act upon them, soon your husband will begin to give you importance and love.
Praise his hard work and discipline.
Give him control in small matters, consult in large matters.
Establish some good traditions at home and respect them.
Plan together with him in financial matters.
Present new ideas gradually and respectfully.
Speak in a requesting manner instead of giving orders.
Help him put his feelings into words.
Bring a little flexibility into practicality.
Arrange short but quality entertainment.
Focus on praise, correct less.
Appreciate his work but also give importance to household work.
Arrange small domestic joys.
Include a smile in conversation.
Ask him in important decisions and tell him his opinion is important.
Perform spiritual worship with cheerfulness and love.
Make the home comfortable and peaceful.
Arrange meetings with other family members to create emotional flexibility.
